Meditation Domination

Every week I offer a free meditation space at my studio. We don't do any kind of complicated breathing techniques. We only sit and watch as our body just does this miraculous thing we call breathing. As much as we can we just watch it happen. I have a reason for doing that as a dominatrix. I don't want you to enter into a vulnerable space with me without knowing how to sit, naked (maybe with a group of other people) and just breathe with me. Kink is a religion for me. Alan Watts says that an initiation into any kind of spiritual truth has be to something that at first might demotivate you. Alot of times kink folks get into kink because of the rush of it and they want to chase that rush. More intense and more intense, but no. I want you to just be able to hover with me, in a vulnerable space and just feel. I want you to regularly have conversations with yourself about how you feel and be able to feel safe to communicate that to me.

Most people cannot sit quietly and try to have no thoughts in their head. But that's what all my kink is about. Not, sitting quietly and having no thoughts. That might be a goal, but sitting and watching the whole universe of thoughts that are inside me. So, I want to introduce to you first, the idea of climbing up on the top of your head, letting that balloon you call your ego float away for a while, and just navigate the thoughts that come up.

Bondage is so incredibly compatible with meditation. I put you in a leather sleep sac, you feel nothing. All you feel, is what's in your body. You hear nothing, because I've put earphones on you. You see nothing, because I've blindfolded you. Maybe you smell nothing because we're integrating breath play. You only hear, see, feel and smell what is in your own mind, and your own body. Maybe you realize that you are divinity it'self. Maybe you just sit and watch the world happen. Guess what? You have entered Nirvana. Are you comfortable with that? Can you stay and hover for a while. Just be and be nothing, even though you are everything.

This is the style of Domme I am. I love being the one, kind of like Ms Frizzle, who is taking you into these experiences and being the one you depend on. I love being in that hovering state, especially with some kind of sensation, myself, and so I love being the one who takes my submissive there as well.

This existence is intense, and weird, and wonderful, and frightening, and tragic, and glorious, but most of the time we're too busy and tired to really see that. But in the time with me, I"ll have you hovering. Just hover and feel it, and maybe cry and maybe realize that you are every bit in the middle of ecstacy, and how could life possibly be any other way than it is.

There is every bit a relationship between kink and spirituality. When someone comes into my lair what I want them to be able to do is access that part of themselves that they really and truly want to be. Maybe they have just realized they enjoy wearing women's clothing, or maybe they do like that kind of play they've been too ashamed to admit. That's some heavy intense shit. Let's have a meditative breathing practice to be able to be with our body and integrate these revelations. Because my attitude is that as long as you're not hurting anyone, do what you want to do, and let me be right there next to you as someone who has spent pretty much my whole life confronting who I might be and learning to breathe and not only be ok with, but love it.

Do a tarot reading after a session like this. It will blow your mind how connected you really are.

And when you leave my door, you can put on whatever mask you need to put on to get though your life. It doesn't mean a damn thing. When you're ready to be who you might be, I'll be right there to support you and flip off the haters, but not everyone is privileged to be able to come out and be who they really are, and that's ok.